MY WISH ON VALENTINE'S DAY

Valentine's Day's wishlist:

Some pray to marry the man they love, my prayer will somewhat vary: I humbly pray to heaven above that I love the man I marry.

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LOVE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!

You have to be happy with who you are, before you can be with someone else.
This sounds simple, but its actually fairly tricky.
The only time when someone else really makes you angry, is when you see in them parts of yourself you don't like.
If you don't like who you are, you can't be happy with someone else.
Now everyone needs someone else in their life to be happy.
We are social animals, we are designed through evolution and socialization to seek to be a part of something with someone else.
But if there are no parts of yourself you really like, all you will ever see in someone else is your own failings.
Their cowardice becomes your cowardice.
Their lies become your own dishonesty.
Their anger merely reflects your rage.
Their inability to change, to grow into something more, is really just your own resentment at your own obstinancy.
Your own anger that you can't grow into something more.
Your own fear of changing.


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25 RANDOM THINGS ABOUT ME

I just did this on facebook. I got tagged for the first time and was really upbeat about it. So here are 25 random things about me

1. I enjoy writing more than dentistry.
2. I have a penchant for falling in love with committed men.
3. I am not particularly fond of children.
4. I absolutely love Gulzar Saab.
5. I am not a morning person at all.
6. I have not been anywhere outside India till now in my life.
7.I love watching reality shows - yes all of them and even like discussing about them.
8. Even though I am not a religious person, I love going to The Golden Temple in Amritsar.
9. I hate animals.
10. I am a very messy person and an equally messy eater.
11. I love buying lingerie for myself.
12. I am a bookworm, a complete book-a-holic, if ever such a word exists. Not only reading but buying, collecting, sorting, indexing them also.
13. I was one of the worst students of science section in my batch. Yet I am the only one who has managed to become a doctor.
14. I suffer from insomnia.
15. I am a cry baby.
16. I get nightmares about being married to a ghoulish looking sardar.
17. As a kid, I used to love using the phrase, 'practice before you preach' without knowing its meaning.
18. I dont know how to drive.
19. I really, really, really want to get a tattoo.
20. I love paper, pens, journals, organizers, highlighters - all the possible stationery items.
21. I believe in fairies, gnomes, pixies and elves.
22. I want to own a farm one day.
23. I am allergic to all metals - all kinds except gold and platinum.
24. I am a congenital myopic.
25. I have pledged my eyes for donation.

I don't know how to tag people in blogger. so anyone reading it please let me know some random things about yourself -:)


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CHANGE

You should know who you want to be, before you go looking for who you want to be with.
The only constant that you will find in this world is that it is changing.
In a thousand different ways, in a thousand different forms.
Tomorrow will be different than today.
And so will you. You will grow, you will learn.
What seems to be life - altering mportant to you today will be less inportant to you tomorrow, and may not mean anything in two years.
You should find someone who respects you, and whom you respect.
They should also help you become the type of person you want to be, and you should be able to help them become who they want to be.
If this isn't the case, why are you with this person - and why are they with you?

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LOVE TEACHES

There is a difference in knowing something in your mind, and in your heart and soul. Intellectually understanding something is very easy.
Its just a question of looking at the information, looking at what you do and don't know and try to make a wise decision.
But heart and soul are different than your mind.
The heart will hold unto things, and never accept things that the mind can easily understand. That boy your mind is telling you to be with, because he's so kind to you, but your heart doesn't have feelings for.
And you dont control your feelings, only your actions.
To me, this is a part of what makes love so special.
The odds of really falling for someone, and having them really fall for you.
These are shots in the dark and they dont happen that often.
But you find someone who makes you feel happy about being you.
Who makes it easy for you to get up in the morning, just so you can see them.
Who makes the hard things easy, just because you know you can be with them later.
Who gives you faith in humanity, because they are a part of it.
This is love, near as I can tell.
Its like they are a part of you, you didnt even know you had until you met them.
The heart recognises and thinks in this language.
It can also hate in this language as well.
The heart takes longer time to heal and learn.
But its only when you know something in your heart that you truly believe it.
Love makes you learn with your heart, not your mind.


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TRYING

If you want to know someone, don't ask them what truths they know.
Ask them what lies they need.
We are all much more sensitive, and weaker creatures; then we will ever admit to.
We are all far more scared then we are willing to let on.
We are all far less independent then we would like to be.
Most of us claim that we don't let others negative opinions affect us.
Most of us say we would do the right thing, if no one was looking.
Maybe we would, but many of us wouldn't.
We are never completely who we wish we could be.
We always think we could always stand to be better looking, or smarter.
Kinder, funnier, somehow better.
We all use lies, in different ways, to make ourselves feel better about ourselves.
And yet all of us claim to love truth.
It is tough to look in the mirror and not see who we wish we could be, so we use lies to make ourselves look better.
We are just scared.
We're just imperfect.
We're just human.
We're just taking a little while longer then we'd like to become who we want to be.
There are times in your life when you will build who you are off of a lie, because you can't stand to face the truth.
Oftentimes, this is because we are not yet ready to face this truth.
Its always easier to believe in the myth of pure evil.
Its much harder to learn to understand, to be brave in the face of fear.
To try.
To love.
That's what makes trying so important.

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LIVE YOUR LIFE!!!!!!

No one can change your life for you.
You could spend your entire life, utterly miserable and it would never change.
Many are always waiting for something good to happen to them, for that one great shot.
This is wrong.
This is self delusion.
This is just wallowing in your own misery.
Everyone has hurt, everyone has their own confusions.
No one has all the answers. We may think that we do, from time to time, but we don't.
When one thinks they have all the answers, they are suffering from a moment of blindness.
We are all scared, we are all crazy, we are all stupid.
Sometimes we are two out of three, sometimes we are all three.
Do not let these three traps lock you into doing something that you know is wrong, and you later regret.
Do not sit around, waiting for some perfect person to come along and fix your life for you.
It will have to be you who fixes the problems in your life.
No one else can, no one else should.
If another is making all your choices, you are not living your life; you are living the life another has chosen for you.
And the truth is, you only get one.


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