Thursday, February 19, 2009


My friend recently had a baby girl. This got me started on thinking on what I would want to tell any daughters I might have in the future, so I started trying to think of what it was important to tell someone I cared about, who was just starting to date.These are the things which I had picked up and figured out in my life as a girl and woman.

Women mature faster then boys, but only physically.
Older boys feedthe 'mature faster' line to younger girls for two reasons.
One, they know older boyfriends are status symbols for younger girls; and two, they know younger girls are more malleable - so they can probably get them to do what they want.
It is not a sign of social status to be dating a 25 year old when you are 17.
It means you are gullible and naive, and he's being contemptous of you as a person.
It probably also means he doesn't think he's good enough to be with an adult.


Boy's lie, men don't . . . (well, not as often).
Boys just want you to not be mad at them, (at least right now).
They tend to think in the short term, and always like to live in the moment.
They can be a lot of fun.
You just don't want to rely on them.
Men know that eventually - what they do and the type of person they are is going to catch up to them.
It might not be today, it might not be tomorrow, but its still going to be out there.
They also know its better to have a small fight today, then a big fight tomorrow.
Or a huge fight next week. Or a divorce in a year.
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1 comment:

अविनाश said...

Nice post.
There is dissimilarity between age and maturity. One merely tells the quantity of years you’ve been on the planet from the moment of your birth and the other enlightens how far ahead you are of your time in terms of your thoughts and attitude.

The former deals with the physical while the latter is more on the emotional, psychological perchance and even spiritual levels of your personhood. Studies (scientifically) show that women mature more easily than men. This is perhaps due to the nurturing instincts of women which turn them into more responsible human beings early on in life. Agree with you that women faster maturity has more to do with physical than any thing else (thoughts and approach)

Men, on the other hand, have the natural need to be nurtured, consequently, they, most of the time, need someone to do the nurturing on them. This is just the way things are; this creates the balance. In fact, the differences between men and women are what make them a perfect combination.

Younger Men, Older Women

its not astounding therefore those men often find themselves attracted to women slightly older than they are. There is something enigmatic about mature women that they find irresistible. Perhaps their need to be nurtured again kicks in, and they find that older women have more to offer than women of their age.

For instance, a successful and more mature woman is attractive in the sense that she has risen in her respective field which almost always is a male-dominated world. While eccentricities may arise, this only makes older women all the more mysterious and engaging at the same time. It’s a mix that’s definitely hard to resist.

However, most mature women are already set in their ways, and it may be hard to coax them into changing some of these ways because they have gotten so used to it. Nonetheless, men find this challenging and all men love challenges.

Older and Wiser

it is best to remember that getting older doesn’t actually mean that one has wizened up with the years. There are some women who have the same concept about life as when they were younger. While maturity sometimes comes with age, not all women grasp this. Hence, maturity also is a byproduct of the struggles one has gone through in life and how these were handled either head-on or running in circles.

Experience, they say, after all, is the best teacher, and until you get what you needed to learn, the lessons will keep repeating themselves to the point of driving you up the wall or downhill. Women in general, are better at this because they have the natural tendency to want to fix things as soon as something goes awry.

They will also keep at it until everything is as near to perfection as possible. Their obsessive-compulsive tendencies to make everything okay whether at work, at home or anywhere else are something men will find annoying and endearing at the same time.

In the end, after all the struggles from within and in their surroundings, women find that they have matured just a little bit more than the previous year because they are resilient where men are stubborn.

Regarding lie, well… I have 2 say 2 u that speak the truth is a painful thing. To be forced to tell lies is much worse

HAVING SAID ALL THESE WE ALL KNOW THAT THERE WILL ALWAYS BE EXCEPTIONS AND IT VARIES FROM ONE INDIVIDUAL 2 ANOTHER. Above was just my opinion, every one will have their own & even if I don’t agree, I comprehend & respect it.

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