Saturday, February 14, 2009

LOVE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!

You have to be happy with who you are, before you can be with someone else.
This sounds simple, but its actually fairly tricky.
The only time when someone else really makes you angry, is when you see in them parts of yourself you don't like.
If you don't like who you are, you can't be happy with someone else.
Now everyone needs someone else in their life to be happy.
We are social animals, we are designed through evolution and socialization to seek to be a part of something with someone else.
But if there are no parts of yourself you really like, all you will ever see in someone else is your own failings.
Their cowardice becomes your cowardice.
Their lies become your own dishonesty.
Their anger merely reflects your rage.
Their inability to change, to grow into something more, is really just your own resentment at your own obstinancy.
Your own anger that you can't grow into something more.
Your own fear of changing.

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2 comments:

sydney said...

that is very true, you have some very valid points in this blog, that I hope a lot of people will read and put into use :)

Unknown!!! said...

so true,..philosophical stuff..but on one point I'd partly differ with u.. you said "The only time when someone else really makes you angry, is when you see in them parts of yourself you don't like."

I dont think so.. many times you expect a particular behavior from others, which is the same you would behave if you were in their place, but when they fail to do so that, it really hurts you...but again if the underlying assumption is that you don't like that behavior then it may so.. thats y i said partly

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